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How to date a virgin

How to date a virgin

Never had sex before and want to wait for marriage?

Here are my tips on how to date as a virgin First I just want to say that it is rare and increpbily commendable for you to wait until marriage to have sex or at least not jump into a physical relationship until you are ready.

When we sleep with someone we build an emotional attachment and I believe there is no such thing as casual sex.

So here are some tips for you on how to date as a virgin and tell men you aren’t going to be sleeping with them :

1) Do what is right for you – stand in your conviction , just because others don’t agree or don’t understand doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with your choices . Stop apologising for it!

2)Date someone who believes the same things – make it easier for you by dating men who have the same choices and values as you so you aren’t trying to convince men all the time not to have sex.

3)Tell him early on – so that no one gets a surprise and so that things can be kept transparent. Explain rather than express to him.

4) Don’t make sex the focus – learn to feel fulfilled in other areas and try to limit the temptation by not always focusing on not having sex.

5) Learn to be affectionate without sex – holding hands, cuddling , soft touches and kisses as well as having deep conversations that make you feel closer and more intimate .

6) Don’t put yourself in tempting situations – don’t make it harder for both of you by being in intimate or compromising situations.

I believe there is a big reward in a marriage for two people who choose to wait until then to have sex. But having great sex takes practice , communication and vulnerability – plus it shouldn’t be the only reason why someone gets married !

Question

I have been looking for a relationship leading to marriage for quite a few years now. I have a great job that God’s blessed me with, no debt, and am in a strong position to provide material needs to a spouse. I’ve been checking off the various boxes over the years to become a better mate, yet I cannot seem to find any girls of marriage potential.

I have not been able to find any Christian girls who are virgins. If I successfully get a date, as it moves along I am constantly disappointed to find out they have had sex with numerous men before. Each makes the typical statement that they were mistakes and they’ve asked God for forgiveness and moved on. Unfortunately, as a potential husband, there is no option for me to “move on” beyond the infidelity.

It’s extremely disheartening to not even be able to find a virgin Christian girl, much less one that I could marry. Any thoughts or suggestions? I’m tired of the “you’re young, don’t worry about it, you’ll find someone” type lines. Yes, I am young, but I want to find the wife of my youth. And each year I am forced to wait, the odds of finding a woman who can wear white at her wedding drop more and more.

My female friends keep telling me, “It’s not that big of a deal, and no girls over 20 are virgins. The fact they’ve had sex doesn’t change much.” But not only do I not believe them, there’s lots of scientific as well as biblical evidence for it being a big deal! And that’s on top of the human feelings of betrayal, shame and dishonor of knowing your girl didn’t love you enough to not sleep with other men, as well as the mental images you’ll have for a lifetime of her being sexually active with her lovers. Thank you in advance for your thoughts.

Answer

Thanks for your question. There’s a lot bound up in it, so let me see if I can offer some thoughts on a few different fronts.

To begin with — especially in light of what I am about to write below — I want to affirm you in your belief that premarital sex is everywhere and always a sin, and that it is a sin not only against God, but against one’s eventual spouse. I deeply wish that more single people — especially those who profess to be Christian — lived out that conviction. God’s Word tells us that sexual sin is very serious, that we are to avoid “sexual immorality” (sometimes translated as “fornication”) and that we should all be virgins when we marry. See, among other passages, Matthew 15:19; Mark 7:21; 1 Corinthians 6, 13-20; 1 Timothy 5:2; Galatians 5:19-21; Song of Solomon 2:7; Hebrews 13:4.

Also, just so I make sure I’ve said it, this biblical standard applies equally to men and women. I know that idea may go without saying for most people who will read this, but there are a number of cultures within the readership of Boundless in which cultural sexual standards are different for men than for women. The biblical standard applies to all and does not change with cultural preferences.

In this day and age, it’s also worth mentioning that premarital sexual activity other than intercourse, as well as the use of pornography, constitute the same type of violation of the Bible’s sexual ethic and betrayal of one’s future spouse that premarital intercourse does. In fact, in some cases, I have seen addiction to pornography cause as much or more harm to later marital relationships than a single sexual encounter directly involving another person.

In other words (assuming you yourself are a virgin and not regularly engaged in other forms of sexual immorality), you are right to be frustrated at the sexual immorality you see, and it’s quite understandable for you to feel hurt at the notion of marrying a woman who has sinned against you by having sex before her marriage to you.

Now, even with all that clearly said, I would ask you to consider two points. First, neither I nor the biblical scholars I respect and trust read Scripture to teach that you have “no option” to move past a woman’s sin or that any woman who has had sex can never be of “marriage potential.” Without getting into the weeds of what can be some pretty technical Old Testament arguments about punishments for fornication and what actions “create” a marriage as an Old Testament legal matter, most orthodox biblical scholars believe that while premarital sex is clearly a sin, commission of that sin does not automatically disqualify a person from later marriage under the new covenant of grace in Christ.

Second, if I’m reading between the lines of your question correctly (and I fully admit I may not be), it seems you are less interested in technical Old Testament law than in your feelings that a potential wife who has had sex before (1) has sinned against you as her (potential) husband; (2) raises potentially difficult marital issues for you involving feelings of betrayal, trust, and sexual adequacy and security; and (3) is not worthy to marry you. If these ideas reflect your thoughts, I think Scripture teaches you are right on the first two but wrong on the third.

For the good of your own soul and that of your future wife, I would encourage you to spend some time thinking about grace and forgiveness as you move forward in finding a wife. Every one of us who are now in Christ was once — quite deservedly — an object of God’s wrath (Ephesians 2:3). We may have committed different sins, but none of us was righteous (Romans 3:23). Once we repent of our sins and are in Christ, however, each of us is a new creation. The old has passed away and the new has come (2 Corinthians 5:17). And given our perfect Lord’s forgiveness of us, we are on very dangerous ground scripturally when we assume a posture of refusing to forgive and holding others’ sins against them (see Matthew 18:23-35; Luke 11:4). The sin of premarital sex can be a tough one to get past, but it is not so egregious that it sets aside the biblical truths that apply to all of us as people who have been graciously pardoned of capital offenses against God.

Even if you are as pure as fresh snow in your singleness, and no matter how many of the “various boxes . . . to become a better mate” you check off, two things remain true: (1) you will never be asked to forgive your wife of more than you have already been forgiven in Christ, and (2) if you have not already, you will repeatedly sin against your wife and will need grace and forgiveness from her.

I cannot say that you must make peace with marrying a woman who has had sex before. Despite what your friends are telling you, there are many godly women who are still virgins. Also, sin has consequences, and it sometimes necessarily changes (or precludes) relationships. Just make sure that you are not sinning in your own thinking, or holding others to a standard you yourself could not bear.

I will pray for you to have wisdom and grace as you look for a wife to serve (Ephesians 5:25-28).

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Virgin or Non-Virgin: Is There a Difference?

You may have wondered if there is a way to tell if a woman is still a virgin? Some people think that there are ways that they can tell the differences about a virgin or a non-virgin, but that is not actually true. There is no physical way you can just look at a woman and know for sure if she is a virgin and there is no way that you can tell by the way that she acts if she is one either. Today we are looking at if there actually are any ways at all to tell if a woman is a virgin.

Here we want to look at some of the ways that people may think they can tell if a woman has a unbroken vagina or not.

How to date a virgin

1. Are there physical differences?

You cannot just look at a woman and know if she is a virgin. However, if the woman has a hymen then she is a virgin. It is as simple as that. It is important to note though that the lack of a hymen does not mean that she is not a virgin. A hymen can be broken in many ways other than sex. Sport or using a tampon is the most common reasons as to why a woman who is a virgin would have her hymen broken. You can find virgin pics online where medical professionals have documented the known physical differences.

2. Is there a difference in behavior?

Some people may tell you that you can tell if a woman is a virgin just by the way that she acts. This could not be any further from the truth. While some people might think that they have an idea of the way a virgin acts, there is no actual way to tell if someone is a virgin just by the way they act. There is a school of thought that if a woman is a virgin that she will be a little timid and shy when she is in the bedroom.

3. How is sex different with a virgin?

You may think that if there is blood or pain when you have sex with them that this means they are a virgin. However, pain during sex does not mean she is a virgin. All women are different and the way that she acts in bed does not mean anything in regards to whether she is a virgin or not.

This is actually really hard to answer as you could say that she would be tighter or that she would find it painful if she is a virgin. Yet this could be because she is not properly aroused and ready for sex or it could even be that this is just the way her vagina is.

We have established that there is no scientific way to tell the differences about a virgin or a non-virgin just by looking at her or being with her. However, we thought we would have some fun and share some of the more interesting tips for figuring out if a woman is a virgin or not. Please remember that these tips are purely for fun and some of the more common ways that have been talked about over the years.

How to date a virgin

  • Is she flirty?

Some people say that if a woman likes to flirt with the opposite sex then this means that she is only looking for one thing and she is only looking for that one thing because she has had it before!

  • You can tell by her walk

As crazy as this sounds there is a school of thought that says that after a woman has had sex she walks a little different because her vaginal opening is now bigger which causes her to walk a little broader. We suggest that you do not go around and start studying the way women walk!

  • She is a great kisser

The only way to become a great kisser is with lots and lots of practice and we all know what hot and heavy make-out sessions lead to! Well actually we do not, but there are some who think that if a woman is a great kisser it is because she has had a lot of practice doing it.

  • Showing a lot of skin

There is a very unfair generalization that if a woman likes to show off her body that she is easy and looking for sex. Of course, this is not the case, but that does not stop people from seeing a woman wearing revealing clothes and thinking that she is easy! What a woman wears may seem like it is an indication that she likes sex, but it is not.

  • Is she nervous?

By this we mean are they nervous when you are intimate? It is easy to say that they are nervous because they are a virgin. However, they could be nervous for many other and more likely reasons as well. They could just really like you, not feel that good, or they could just be nervous as it is a natural thing to feel when you are intimate with someone new.

There may be a million articles out there telling you that it is easy to spot if a woman is a virgin, but this is not true at all. While a complete vagina can be more than likely spotted by a professional, all women are different and there is no such thing as a virgin detector. The best tip that we can give you if you are with a woman you like is to get to know her, be nice to her, and if she wants to tell you if she is a virgin, she will. This is a much better way to find out than by looking for a broad walk or examining her wardrobe!

How to date a virgin

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Dating is never easy, and the pressure feels especially high when you’re a 20-something virgin. But fear not, because HuffPost Live has a few tips for you.

In a conversation with host Caitlyn Becker, women’s dating coach Ronnie Ann Ryan said revealing your sexual history on the first or second date is too much information. The third date, she said, is more appropriate because you’ve given your date a chance to get to know you.

“On the third date, when you have something that you’re a little nervous about — which you might be, regarding virginity — that could be a good time to bring something up, and chances are that’s when a lot of guys will be sometimes pushing the envelope and hoping to get a little something,” Ryan said, alluding to sex.

Ellen Burkhardt, the 26-year-old author of “When Guys Find Out I’m A Virgin,” also joined the conversation to explain why she’s chosen to wait until marriage to have sex.

“A couple of factors went into my decision: I’m a Christian, so I was raised with that sort of belief system and those values and that sort of stuck with me,” Burkhardt said. “Then the older I got, it just became a decision based on the fact that I hadn’t felt that sort of connection with anyone.”

Watch the video above for more information on how to handle this difficult topic and click here to see the full segment.

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How to date a virgin

Forget butt play or the pull-out method: The latest trend in sex might be forgoing it altogether.

According to a recent study out of University College London, millennials are waiting longer to have sex than members of previous generations, with 12.5 percent of them abstaining until age 26.

But some wait even longer than that. We recently talked to three people who have remained virgins well into their 30s — one by choice, the other two by happenstance. Below, they tell us more about how they’ve remained abstinent this long and what it’s like to date when you’ve never had sex.

Responses have been edited for clarity and style, with last names withheld for privacy.

People remain virgins for so many different reasons. For you, was it an intentional choice to abstain from sex?

Brianna, a 35-year-old programmer from Indianapolis, Indiana: My reasons are a bit of a mixed bag. I was raised very conservatively and was told that sex before marriage was a sin, so that kept me a virgin for a while. Then, when I outgrew that thinking, it was a matter of waiting to find someone I felt comfortable enough with to consider that next step. It just hasn’t happened. I date and have had a couple of relationships get as far as three months or so, but no one long term. So, I’m still a virgin.

Matt, a tech industry worker in his mid-30s who lives in Lansing, Michigan: I grew up with fairly severe social anxiety, which I’ve never completely overcome. I had some early rejections in late high school and early college that completely ruined what self-esteem I had. We live in a society that mostly expects the guy to be the initiator and ask a woman out ― in a heteronormative context, anyhow. At the same time, you hear platitudes like, “It will happen when you least expect it!” quite often, so I went through my 20s thinking, “It will happen when it happens.”

Then I got into my 30s, the last of my close single friends got married, I had never been in a relationship, and I realized that I had a problem. I’d always struggled with my weight. In my 30s, I got bariatric surgery, where they removed 80 percent of my stomach. I lost 140 pounds, thinking that was the problem. And while I do land a few more dates now than I did before, I’ve never had anything progress past the second or third date. It is difficult to step outside myself, but in a nutshell, I blame my social anxiety and introverted personality.

Kate, a 33-year-old conservative writer who lives in Washington, D.C.: I would say that the reasons evolved over time. I bought a chastity ring when I was 16 that said, “True love waits.” In college, I bought a different ring that I still wear to this day, because my understanding of chastity evolved. I realized it wasn’t just about “waiting,” it was choosing to love. The ring that I bought says “John 3:16 ” in Greek: “God so loved the world that He gave His only son.” It’s a reminder to me to strive to be that most perfect love in the world and that I deserve someone who strives to love me in that most perfect way. We all deserve that.

“Most guys that I know or have dated are really supportive, and many even share my beliefs. But I do get guys every once in a while that give me hassle about it ― and the worst is on social media.”

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Virgin or Non-Virgin: Is There a Difference?

You may have wondered if there is a way to tell if a woman is still a virgin? Some people think that there are ways that they can tell the differences about a virgin or a non-virgin, but that is not actually true. There is no physical way you can just look at a woman and know for sure if she is a virgin and there is no way that you can tell by the way that she acts if she is one either. Today we are looking at if there actually are any ways at all to tell if a woman is a virgin.

Here we want to look at some of the ways that people may think they can tell if a woman has a unbroken vagina or not.

How to date a virgin

1. Are there physical differences?

You cannot just look at a woman and know if she is a virgin. However, if the woman has a hymen then she is a virgin. It is as simple as that. It is important to note though that the lack of a hymen does not mean that she is not a virgin. A hymen can be broken in many ways other than sex. Sport or using a tampon is the most common reasons as to why a woman who is a virgin would have her hymen broken. You can find virgin pics online where medical professionals have documented the known physical differences.

2. Is there a difference in behavior?

Some people may tell you that you can tell if a woman is a virgin just by the way that she acts. This could not be any further from the truth. While some people might think that they have an idea of the way a virgin acts, there is no actual way to tell if someone is a virgin just by the way they act. There is a school of thought that if a woman is a virgin that she will be a little timid and shy when she is in the bedroom.

3. How is sex different with a virgin?

You may think that if there is blood or pain when you have sex with them that this means they are a virgin. However, pain during sex does not mean she is a virgin. All women are different and the way that she acts in bed does not mean anything in regards to whether she is a virgin or not.

This is actually really hard to answer as you could say that she would be tighter or that she would find it painful if she is a virgin. Yet this could be because she is not properly aroused and ready for sex or it could even be that this is just the way her vagina is.

We have established that there is no scientific way to tell the differences about a virgin or a non-virgin just by looking at her or being with her. However, we thought we would have some fun and share some of the more interesting tips for figuring out if a woman is a virgin or not. Please remember that these tips are purely for fun and some of the more common ways that have been talked about over the years.

How to date a virgin

  • Is she flirty?

Some people say that if a woman likes to flirt with the opposite sex then this means that she is only looking for one thing and she is only looking for that one thing because she has had it before!

  • You can tell by her walk

As crazy as this sounds there is a school of thought that says that after a woman has had sex she walks a little different because her vaginal opening is now bigger which causes her to walk a little broader. We suggest that you do not go around and start studying the way women walk!

  • She is a great kisser

The only way to become a great kisser is with lots and lots of practice and we all know what hot and heavy make-out sessions lead to! Well actually we do not, but there are some who think that if a woman is a great kisser it is because she has had a lot of practice doing it.

  • Showing a lot of skin

There is a very unfair generalization that if a woman likes to show off her body that she is easy and looking for sex. Of course, this is not the case, but that does not stop people from seeing a woman wearing revealing clothes and thinking that she is easy! What a woman wears may seem like it is an indication that she likes sex, but it is not.

  • Is she nervous?

By this we mean are they nervous when you are intimate? It is easy to say that they are nervous because they are a virgin. However, they could be nervous for many other and more likely reasons as well. They could just really like you, not feel that good, or they could just be nervous as it is a natural thing to feel when you are intimate with someone new.

There may be a million articles out there telling you that it is easy to spot if a woman is a virgin, but this is not true at all. While a complete vagina can be more than likely spotted by a professional, all women are different and there is no such thing as a virgin detector. The best tip that we can give you if you are with a woman you like is to get to know her, be nice to her, and if she wants to tell you if she is a virgin, she will. This is a much better way to find out than by looking for a broad walk or examining her wardrobe!

Most of us have been living in a false notion that the virginity is a women’s term. Men who aren’t virgin can’t get caught. But it’s not true. We can find out whether a man is virgin or not.

While we think that most of the men lose their virginity at a very early phase of their life, there are some men who haven’t even tried getting intimate with a woman. Well, regardless of being a woman or a man, everyone has a right to his/her sexuality, but we can still deduce a man’s virginity if we pay attention to their behaviour.

How to date a virginImage Source: h-cdn

And mind it, this article will only help you make a rough estimate. Guesses can be wrong sometimes. So if you’re wondering whether you’re dating a virgin man or not, try to note his body language.

1. He’s Too Shy Around Girls
If he flinches even with the slightest touch of a woman, then chances are that he’s not used to be in a female’s company.

How to date a virginImage Source: goodstatic

2. He Keeps Safe Distance with Girls While Talking to Them
He’s not among those who lean over women while talking to them or pat their shoulders cordially. In fact, his face turns red whenever he talks to a girl.

How to date a virginImage Source: onionstatic

Also Read: 6 Stages of Sex in Your Married Life

3. He Gets Nervous When You Ask Him Out for a Date
He gets nervous and gets a heart attack kind of feeling whenever you ask him out for a date. Try to hold his hand while talking, if he starts to shiver or sweating, then there are chances that he’s too shy to be intimate with a woman.

How to date a virginImage Source: spoilersguide

4. He Has No Idea What to do While Getting Intimate
When you both try to get intimate, instead of taking the lead, he is clueless as to what to do next. He stares at your face and waiting for you to make a move.

How to date a virginImage Source: imgix

5. When in Bed, He Wonders What to Do
A man with previous experience will take the lead and get straight to the job. His moves will tell a great deal whether he has any past experience or not. While on the other hand, a person without any experience will wonder where to start.

How to date a virginImage Source: slovenskenovice

6. He Stares with Eyes Wide Open When He Sees You Naked
A person with experience might have seen a naked woman in a bed. But if he’s having such a sight for the first time, he will eagerly scan you.

How to date a virginImage Source: blackheartmagazine

7. He Might Bleed
A very small percentage of men have too tight foreskin on their tool. Such men might experience a slight bleeding when they’re making love for the first time in their life.

How to date a virginImage Source: blogspot

Also Read: 10 Basic Sex Etiquette Will Make Your Intimate Moments Spicier

Most of us have been living in a false notion that the virginity is a women’s term. Men who aren’t virgin can’t get caught. But it’s not true. We can find out whether a man is virgin or not.

While we think that most of the men lose their virginity at a very early phase of their life, there are some men who haven’t even tried getting intimate with a woman. Well, regardless of being a woman or a man, everyone has a right to his/her sexuality, but we can still deduce a man’s virginity if we pay attention to their behaviour.

How to date a virginImage Source: h-cdn

And mind it, this article will only help you make a rough estimate. Guesses can be wrong sometimes. So if you’re wondering whether you’re dating a virgin man or not, try to note his body language.

1. He’s Too Shy Around Girls
If he flinches even with the slightest touch of a woman, then chances are that he’s not used to be in a female’s company.

How to date a virginImage Source: goodstatic

2. He Keeps Safe Distance with Girls While Talking to Them
He’s not among those who lean over women while talking to them or pat their shoulders cordially. In fact, his face turns red whenever he talks to a girl.

How to date a virginImage Source: onionstatic

Also Read: 6 Stages of Sex in Your Married Life

3. He Gets Nervous When You Ask Him Out for a Date
He gets nervous and gets a heart attack kind of feeling whenever you ask him out for a date. Try to hold his hand while talking, if he starts to shiver or sweating, then there are chances that he’s too shy to be intimate with a woman.

How to date a virginImage Source: spoilersguide

4. He Has No Idea What to do While Getting Intimate
When you both try to get intimate, instead of taking the lead, he is clueless as to what to do next. He stares at your face and waiting for you to make a move.

How to date a virginImage Source: imgix

5. When in Bed, He Wonders What to Do
A man with previous experience will take the lead and get straight to the job. His moves will tell a great deal whether he has any past experience or not. While on the other hand, a person without any experience will wonder where to start.

How to date a virginImage Source: slovenskenovice

6. He Stares with Eyes Wide Open When He Sees You Naked
A person with experience might have seen a naked woman in a bed. But if he’s having such a sight for the first time, he will eagerly scan you.

How to date a virginImage Source: blackheartmagazine

7. He Might Bleed
A very small percentage of men have too tight foreskin on their tool. Such men might experience a slight bleeding when they’re making love for the first time in their life.

How to date a virginImage Source: blogspot

Also Read: 10 Basic Sex Etiquette Will Make Your Intimate Moments Spicier

How to date a virgin

How to date a virgin

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How to date a virgin

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Ladies Can U Date A Male Virgin – Romance – Nairaland

i have heard from several ladies dat say they are suprise when they hear a guy is a virgin and they wonder if its true, and they say if truely he his, then good for him, but to them irrespective of how it is, they cant date a male virgin due to reasons i dont no,

they can only date one if they dont know he his,

can u date a male virgin,

‘Cos they want “experience” and they “believe” this experience only comes from multiple conquests.

Why not

is like, as in, the poster said DATE not MARRY!

why y’ll need his sexual experience so badly in a DATE!

small time nw, u would say u have been used and dumped

Yes I can go on a date with a male virgin. What does virginity have to do with going on a date? But having a relationship (dating) a male virgin is another matter!

EXCUSE ME .
is like, as in, the poster said DATE not MARRY!
why y’ll need his sexual experience so badly in a DATE!
small time nw, u would say u have been used and dumped

Uhm date a premature ejaculator?

@ poster
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Ladies Can U Date A Male Virgin

yeah I would, they are the sweetest.

A male virgin, irrespective of his age, is already a dead man waiting to be buried, havent he heard of the saying “An hard di ck is a terrible thing to waste”

I was once a virgin until my gf disvirgin me, Unforturnately, after gathering all the experience needed. She started complaining. lol

yeah I would, they are the sweetest.

i know this 28 male virgin, he is the sweetest and one of my best friends.

HEY VIRGINITY IS A STATE OF THE MIND AND MIND IS TELLIN ME AM A VIRGIN

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Apart from the signs you might be aware of when judging your girl if she is a virgin, I promise you there are other signs to look at for clarification. To be more specific there are marks in a virgin Girl’s body to note include:

1. Forehead : A girl who is still pure has a smooth forehead. After intercourse the slippery smooth face is always lost and some twitch (lines) will appear. The lines don’t look like the ones brought by old age. The lines cannot be removed by any face lotion or oil. It is not easily visible but can be noticed when she laughs or talks.

2. Nose : The tip of her nose is reddish in color if she is a virgin. If you touch the tip of the nose it appears red. Sometimes the color is not easily visible. After intercourse the red color disappears.

3. Eye : When the bottom of the petals folded a bit and there is a sign of bruising ( bruise marks) means the girl is not a virgin anymore. A girl who is still virgin has no black strip. Also when she laughs, a virgin girl has no wrinkles under her eye lids.

4. Fruit Chest (bre’ast) : Brea-sts of a virgin girl are always tense and hard. After being touched by a man, the breasts normally become less firm and become larger than before. The more she is touched and undergoes intercourse the more it enlarges and the more it drops. Apart from knowing her virginity, you can also tell if a woman has given birth or not by looking at her brea-sts. If her nippl’es are straight or facing upwards, she has never given birth. But if her nippl’es are facing downwards, she has given birth.

5. Outline Hand Palm : Try to hold the little finger about one minute then release and ask how it feels. If she says she felt nothing at all, there are high chances she is not a virgin. A virgin girl will say that she felt tense, heart pounding or throbbing pain.

How to date a virgin

When a particular person has never done sex in life, he or she is called a virgin. Virginity is basically the state of a person who has never engaged in a sexual intercourse. Now when we are talking about checking a person for his/her virginity, we will actually have to check if he/she had a past of physical contact or sexual intercourse or not and obviously we can’t enter someone else’s past to check it and thus we need something really working. If you are doubtful whether a particular girl is a virgin or not, you can bring the following tips in use:-

How to date a virgin

How to Know Whether a Girl is Still Virgin or Not

1. Bleeding When You Make a Sexual Intercourse:-

When you make sexual intercourse with a girl for the first time, she is likely to bleed. When you insert your penis in her vaginal area, it will be covered with a layer of blood when it comes out in most of the cases where a girl in virgin. Though this cannot be taken as a permanent factor, but still it stays the same in most of the cases.

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2. Never Consider Bleeding To Be a Sure-Shot Break of Virginity:-

Never consider bleeding to be a sure-shot break of virginity as you may see or may not see blood on your penis when you make sexual intercourse with a girl. The girls who use tampons or play sports are less likely to experience this kind of bleeding as a layer of skin around the opening of their vagina, which is called Hymen gets stretched with such factors and thus you can’t bring this step in use if either of these is applicable with that girl.

3. A Talk of Mutual Trust:-

The best way to adjudge if a girl is virgin or not is to ask her directly but it also depends on the girl’s nature and if she is habitual of lying, she will easily be able to befool you with her words. Instead of asking her if she is virgin, just ask her if she has ever been a part of sports and if she has ever used tampons and then you can consider bleeding or other further mentioned approaches to decide if she is a virgin or not.

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4. Get A Glimpse about It through Her Talks:-

Sometimes even the way a girl talk with you can be taken as a factor to adjudge if she is a virgin or not. If she has had a past with multiple boyfriends, she is very much likely to have lost her virginity. Just have a talk with her and make her frank with yourself. She is sure to reveal each and every moment of her past with you like this.

5. Two Finger Test:-

You can never say it surely if a girl is virgin or not till you don’t perform several virginity tests on her. Besides checking bleeding, you can also go for a two finger test in order to know if she is a virgin or not.
Here in this test you will have to insert two fingers in your girl’s vagina to check the level of laxity in her vagina. Laxity can help us determine if a girl is habitual of a sexual intercourse or not, but this can be best done only if you are either a doctor or if you have a proper knowledge of laxity and proper way to perform this test.

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How do you know? That’s one hell of an assumption! Why couldn’t you show him? Communication is everything with sex! Experience can actually make a man worse in bed because he has bad habits!! What works for one woman doesn’t necessarily work for another! What is there to know? There’s not exactly a massive secret to it!

No, lack of experience wouldn’t put me off. A man who had had many sexual partners might! I would need to understand his reasons though like anything else that strays a bit from the norm. Why people choose a way of life is essential to understand to how you could break down the barriers.

The right woman would be not scary and expectant but patient and wanting to please. I’m sure this man could have a wonderful sex life with a person who knew that ‘good sex’ was more in the mind than physically, Good sex starts way before the bedroom!

How do you know? That’s one hell of an assumption! Why couldn’t you show him? Communication is everything with sex! Experience can actually make a man worse in bed because he has bad habits!! What works for one woman doesn’t necessarily work for another! What is there to know? There’s not exactly a massive secret to it!

No, lack of experience wouldn’t put me off. A man who had had many sexual partners might! I would need to understand his reasons though like anything else that strays a bit from the norm. Why people choose a way of life is essential to understand to how you could break down the barriers.

The right woman would be not scary and expectant but patient and wanting to please. I’m sure this man could have a wonderful sex life with a person who knew that ‘good sex’ was more in the mind than physically, Good sex starts way before the bedroom!

I agree about a man with loads of sexual partners being a turn off.

Equally having to ‘teach’ a 30 year old man what to do makes me criiiinge. That would feel so wrong. And your comment about there being no big secret. I’d have to disagree with that! Lol 😉

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    When I came across Jacob on Tinder , the thing that first attracted me to him was that he described himself as being a “Doctor Who nerd” in his profile. I’m also a huge Doctor Who fan so I thought that was the best reason to swipe right!

    He was very cute and we didn’t waste anytime in arranging a catch-up. The first time I met him was for a coffee date and I really liked him, although he was very quiet. I figured that was the “nerd” in him, as he’d said he was an introvert.

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    In the lead up to our second date he was texting me quite a lot, telling me he couldn’t wait to see me again, saying I was very pretty and had beautiful eyes. He knew how to flatter a girl!

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    ‘I took him to my bedroom. he told me he was a virgin.’ (Getty)

    I wasn’t that sexually experienced , but I don’t think I’d ever slept with a virgin before. I felt under a bit of pressure, hoping it would be a good experience for him and hoping that this would be the beginning of a relationship because I really liked him. I was hoping it wouldn’t end up being just another one night stand.

    It took a while for us to get going, as I was talking him through things a bit, but once we got going, it was great. He seemed to know what he was doing, and though it wasn’t perfect, it was pretty good!

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    He told me he had a big day coming up and needed a good sleep. I told him he could use the spare room if he didn’t want to sleep the whole night with me, but he was determined to go home. We kissed goodbye but I could already tell something was wrong.

    How to date a virgin‘He seemed to know what he was doing, and though it wasn’t perfect, it was pretty good!’ (Pexels)

    The next day I texted him asking if he wanted to catch up again this week and got no reply. Surely he wasn’t ghosting me?

    Two days later he replied saying that it was lovely meeting me but he realised that, once he’d lost his virginity, it was time to move on, that our “friendship” had already served its purpose. He thanked me for making him a man!

    So he just used me to lose his virginity and then he dumped me. I never heard from him again and I hope I never see him again!

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    If you’re thinking about whether to date a widower, you should pay special attention to how to do it right.

    A widowed man inevitably goes through a sort of a personal crisis not many people experience in their dating years of life.

    This is why you should always bear in mind that things cannot be the same as if you were dating a single or even a divorced man.

    There are things you can do to make it all go smoothly, and then there are things you should never allow yourself to do.

    Let’s go over both.

    What a widowed man is going through

    But first, we need to understand what being a widower really means.

    At any stage of life, going through the loss of one’s spouse is the number one stressor , one that brings the most profound life-changing experience.

    It comes with a maximum of points on the famous Holmes and Rahe stress scale.

    This means that losing a wife bears the immense danger of becoming ill and having psychological and physical disturbances.

    Furthermore, a widower, especially when there are children involved, has to take care of a never-ending list of every day (and, hopefully, once in a lifetime) errands.

    Whatever his level of involvement in these matters might have been prior to his wife’s death, he now has to take care of it all by himself.

    A deeper psychological side of being a widower

    What we described above are just the issues a widowed man has to deal with upon losing his wife.

    What is even more important to understand is what he goes through psychologically and emotionally.

    Whenever we lose someone close to us, we need to go through the grieving process. Depending on a number of factors, it lasts from anywhere between months to decades.

    This is why you should be mindful of everything we’re talking about regardless of the fact that your new fling’s wife might have passed twelve years ago.

    You’re still dating a widower, and the same set of rules applies.

    After the initial shock and a denial of the reality of his wife’s death, he will go into a phase of experiencing profound pain, and even guilt.

    After these stages, the widower will feel angry that this has happened to his wife and try to bargain. This is a phase filled with many “If only”s. When nothing works, he will fall into depression.

    However, especially with adequate help, depression is followed by the acceptance stage. This is when most grieving men start dating again.

    What to do when dating a widower

    One thing that you probably realize by now is this – his deceased wife will inevitably become a saint.

    Regardless of how they got along during their marriage, and how she really was with time, the dead wife becomes an angel. And this is understandable.

    It is also something you should learn to accept. In practice, remember that there isn’t a competition.

    Whatever you do, respect your new partner’s idealization of his late wife.

    Never try to be better than that image. Even if you see that things obviously weren’t the way he describes them.

    What you should do is talk openly but with sensitivity about how issues that arise make you feel.

    Expect your new man to feel blues from time to time. Especially on holidays, birthdays, anniversaries, and the way to handle it with success are – allow him to grieve.

    Ask how you can make things easier for him. If he needs some alone time, make sure he gets it. That doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. He’s grieving the loss of a huge chunk of his own life.

    Here are a couple more things to keep in mind when dating a widower:

    • Take things slow: An essential thing to keep in mind when dating a widower is to not try and rush the relationship. Everyone has their way of dealing with loss and grief. Allow them the time to be ready for a new relationship.
    • Communicate: Communication is vital for any relationship to prosper. If you are dating a widower, your ability to communicate openly and honestly will play a huge role in building a strong relationship. Ensure that apart from being a good listener, you must also be able to express your feelings and wishes as well.
    • Limit your expectations: Expectations in many relationships are unspoken agreements that become a pivotal aspect of our satisfaction. If your partner constantly fails to meet your expectations, you might find yourself full of disappointment, anger, and eventually resentment. When dating a widower, you need to manage your expectation by either minimizing them or speaking openly about them. A widower might have been out of the dating game for years; you must take that into consideration.
    • Look for warning signs: If you are dating a widower and you often find him drawing comparisons between you and his deceased spouse, that is definitely a warning sign. The guy you are dating is still stuck in grief, and it could get pathological.

    Also watch: 3 things to expect when dating a widower

    The Big no-nos of dating a widower

    The biggest don’t of dating a widower is talking badly about his late wife.

    As we said earlier, things might not have been as idyllic as he now remembers them, but you really shouldn’t be the one to burst that bubble.

    Never try to secure your position in his life by trying to push her out. Absolutely no need for such a move.

    Also, never try to be like her. Yes, you will surely feel the need to try and rise up for the challenge but do it in your own way. Don’t change, and don’t try to resemble her, or mimic their relationship.

    This is a slippery psychological slope for both. Remember, he came to like and love you after an enormous loss and pain. So, don’t change what he liked so much.

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    This time last year I was a “40-year-old virgin” trying to become a mom.

    What a difference a year can make. These past 9 months have taken me on a journey that I could never have envisioned for myself, even just one year ago. Now, I am one year older and still trying to become a mom, but I am no longer a virgin.

    You may think, “Who cares that you’re no longer a virgin? What’s the big deal?”

    Well… maybe for some people, it isn’t a big deal. But it is to me.

    As someone who grew up in a religiously observant family, I always believed that I would wait for marriage to have sex. I believed that pre-marital sex is “wrong.” Of course, I also assumed that I would be married by now — I certainly never thought I would still be a virgin at the age of 40.

    When you are brought up in a religious environment no one talks about the guilt, shame, and mixed emotions surrounding the topic of sex. We were educated to be shomer negiah — which means to refrain from any form of physical touch with the opposite sex until you are married. Many young adults tend to bend (or outright break) these rules, myself included, but sex was never an option.

    Perhaps in a world in which everyone finds a partner at a young age, this notion of waiting could be wonderful. Sex would come naturally within the framework of marriage; couples would have children and feel fulfilled on many levels. While I am not a fan of the term “shidduch crisis” — a quick Google search will provide countless articles on the topic — the reality is that, similar to the secular world, today there are many more older singles than ever before. The desire for physical intimacy is among the most natural and basic of human needs, and therefore, the prohibition of physical contact becomes an excruciatingly painful challenge. It’s something that many fail at, and therefore feel tremendous guilt about, or they constantly battle against the proscription and struggle to repress their urges.

    As a single woman who always assumed and hoped that she’d be married in her 20s, sex was something I was prepared to wait for. However, as the years sped by and the dream of being a young bride began to fade, the idea of being shomer negiah and “saving myself” for marriage became more and more unrealistic. I did not want to give up on the values I had been raised with, but I also craved to experience that kind of closeness with another person. This internal tug-of-war — between wanting to wait and doing the “right” thing versus the intense desire to be physically intimate with someone — tormented me for years.

    A few years ago, when I finally made the decision to start the process of becoming a mother, one of the hardest things for me, ironically, was not the fact that I was a single, modern Orthodox woman trying to have a baby on her own. Rather, it was that I was still a virgin at the age of 40. The stigma attached to being a “40-year-old virgin” taunted me, and I felt like I just had to get rid of that label.

    So I decided that I didn’t want to become a mother without at least experiencing sex first.

    Last September, after trying to get pregnant for almost a year, I took a break from rounds of artificial insemination and IVF as I needed to give my body (and my soul) time to recover. With my 41st birthday just around the corner, I decided to travel to the United States for a few months, and took advantage of the time there to date. While I was there I reconnected with a childhood friend, and I shared with him all that I was going through. I told him about my decision to become a single mom, the fertility treatments I was going through, and how I longed to experience sex — and not with just “anyone,” but with someone I know and who cares about me. We talked about life and dating, and how “unfair” it all is, and since he was someone that I had always been attracted to and I knew that he would be respectful, I felt that he would be the perfect person to share this experience with. In the back of my mind I hoped that perhaps it could turn into something more serious, but we both agreed that we would keep it “simple,” with no strings attached. While we only spent a few great nights together and it didn’t end the way I may have wanted, I have no regrets.

    Being on the other side of this now, I am thankful that my first experience was with him, and I am thankful that I got it “out of the way.” Now my mind is no longer cluttered with all these emotions, these longings and wonderings. Now I can once again focus on what’s most important, and for me, that is becoming a mother.

    When I returned to Israel at the end of March, I was excited to get back to business and pick up where I left off.I naively assumed that as soon as I got home that I would be able to start trying to conceive once again. But, as always, G-d had other plans. Unfortunately, all fertility treatments were halted due to Covid-19 and so I had no choice but to wait until things reopened.

    Finally, months later things are getting back to somewhat of a new “normal” here. I just completed one unsuccessful round of IVF and was about to start another, when I tested positive for Covid-19 myself. Thankfully, I had a very mild case, but it caused yet another unexpected delay, and so I find myself waiting once again.

    Anyone who has gone through fertility treatments can tell you how emotionally and physically draining the process is. It can be terribly lonely and isolating — and even more so when you are not going through it with a partner. There are days that I get so frustrated and depressed that I feel like giving up. There are days that I get angry with myself and my body for not doing what it’s meant to. There are days I even get angry with God and wonder what it is He wants from me.

    It is on these days — these challenging, heartbreaking, want-to-sit-on-my-floor-and-cry days — that I remember something one of my friends told me a while back: “You gotta believe that if things can be crazy bad, they can also be crazy good.”

    So, I pick myself up, dust myself off and keep pushing forward. After all… what a difference a year can make.

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    It’s so hard to find a boyfriend.

    How to date a virgin

    How to date a virgin

    Dear E. Jean: I’ve never been kissed, gone on a date, or had a boyfriend. At first I told myself that while I was in school I shouldn’t have a boyfriend to distract me from my studies, but I’m now 27 and I still have no man! I fear I’ll die a virgin. I’m just not confident around men. The ones who I think are hot are way out of my league, and the ones who are my friends, well, they don’t see me as anything but. What am I doing wrong? I’m not a supermodel; actually, I’m a bit chunky. I depend on my wit and intelligence (sometimes I think I might come off as too smart or snooty), but I don’t want to dumb myself down to meet a guy. Last year, I promised myself I’d have a boyfriend by this time, and I don’t even have any prospects!— Frustrated Virgin

    Come, come, my snow orchid: I hesitate to give you instructions because I don’t want all 27-year-old virgins going crazy, looting La Perla, and having sex in the streets in a panic over losing their delightful maidenheads. But here’s the plan:

    If you send me evidence that you’ve met 27 chaps in the next 27 days—and by evidence I mean you must email me a photo of you with the guy along with a PDF of the following statement completed by each fellow: “I, [here he signs his name], met [here he must know your name to write it down] on [date], and I’m totally [circle one]: Captivated, Awestruck, Mildly Intrigued, Weirdly Attracted enough to give her my number”—then I will pay for a romantic dinner for you and the suitor you like best of the 27.

    The fact is, you’re simply not meeting enough men. You need a friendly push. And going up to a handsome stranger and telling him that some lunatic advice columnist may pay for dinner if he signs a statement and poses for a picture will cause you to forget whether you’re being “too smart.” And when you forget yourself, your innate man-slaying instincts will take over. (And, yes, I know asking him to circle how much he likes you is school yard, but the most serious flirting in the world is school yard.) The more men you meet at rugby matches, skeet shoots, driving ranges, cigar bars, dating apps, coffee dates, and charity projects, the better the odds you’ll meet a guy you like. And when you meet a guy you like, it’s only a matter of time before your heart’s set fluttering and you’re laughing, touching, and losing your virginity in the shuffle.

    This letter is from the E. Jean archive.