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How to get a valentine

It's February 14 and you're alone (again). Fret not, because there is still time to find a date . Don't feel weird looking for love (or even just one night of it) on Valentine's Day. It's more than guaranteed other single souls are doing the same.

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You don't have a Valentine's Day date. It's ok, neither do I. But I am going to put myself out…

Here are some places you can hunt that you won't have to lie about when you retell the story to your friends, in increasing order of difficulty:

1) Tinder

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Tinder is basically a gimme. It's so simple! Open the app, swipe people to the left you don't like, and click on the ones you do. You can land a date in the amount of time it takes you to walk down the street to the liquor store and buy that bottle of wine you're contemplating housing alone if things don't go your way. And tonight of any night, people on Tinder are definitely DTF.

2) OKCupid

It has been foretold since the dawn of time that people go to OKCupid looking for love (or more accurately sex) on Valentine's Day and every other day. Even if you don't have a profile, you can make one pretty quickly, and start trolling the site for single guys and gals. There are thousands of people, so law of averages. Start messaging and someone's bound to want to grab a drink with you.

3) Twitter

If you haven't gone out with someone you met on Twitter, now's as good a time as any to start. That girl you've been flirting with via fav for the last six weeks? Direct message her. Do it now! Don't hesitate! Get weird! Here, use this simple template: Hey Karen, how weird is it that we've never met IRL. We should get a drink sometime. Maybe tonight, if you're free? Boom.

4) A bar

All right, I know. Bars are generally horrible places to actually meet people. But not if you do it in the right way. Go around happy hour. Go alone. It's a little awkward at first, but just do it. Sit at the bar. Bring a magazine or a notebook or something that invites conversation, as long as it's not your laptop or tablet because people don't make conversations with people with laptops or tablets. You will end up chatting it up with people, and you might even end up meeting someone you like.

5) That blind date your friend has always tried to set you up on that you've always refused

Everyone has one of these. It's just reality. So call up your college roommate who's been bugging you about getting together with her brother-in-law's cousin who's in his last year of his residency and has a great sense of humor and would just be perfect or you. It's scary and it's weird to go on a blind date, but you might as well take the risk. You never know.

6) The grocery store

People meet at the grocery store. I don't know how it happens, I just know that it happens. If you don't believe it, just start asking around. So late this afternoon, head over to the store, even if you don't need anything. Stand in the produce aisle. Scrutinize the cantaloupes. Make conversation. How do you choose a good cantaloupe anyway? There are other single folks out there doing the same thing.

7) A party

Last resort. People have parties on Valentine's Day. They're almost always thrown by single people and for single people. Lonely single people, that is. So put on some pants, turn off Netflix and get out of your house. Go to that party. Be charming. Drink. Talk. You might not find a date, specifically, but you will meet someone. At the very least, you can stand next to the most attractive person in the room for hours on and and convince yourself that it's meaningful.

I've been on four or five dates now with a guy I really like, but we're not quite at that define-the-relationship stage yet. Is there a non-awkward way to celebrate Valentine's Day with him without coming on too strong? How do I bring it up? —Gray Zone

DEAR GRAY ZONE,

There's nothing like the annual celebration of love to put pressure on a new relationship. The somewhat good news? Your guy is probably feeling the exact same way and there is a way to handle it without feeling awkward or lame.

The way I see it, you have four options:

1. Don’t say anything.

Pretend V-Day doesn't exist. Have a case of romantic amnesia. Hold out for him to ask you out for the big day. But if you take this route, you must be prepared for it not to happen. Understand that, this early in a relationship, not sharing Valentine's Day doesn't mean anything about your potential future together. Some guys don't want to go all out until they are in a committed relationship and know it has legs.

2. Bring it up casually.

Ask him if he is up for spending a low-key Valentine's Day together. You can let him know that you enjoy his company and that you would love to have a fun night together. By doing this, you'll also find out how he feels about the holiday — i.e. if he forgot it was even happening or if he views it as a major deal. On that note, know going in that there are some guys who liken sharing Valentine's Day to a walk down the aisle and think it's a sign of a huge commitment, something he just might not be quite ready for after five days.

3. Ask him out.

Take the bull by the horns and ask him out for an evening you plan. Just keep in mind that this sets a precedent that, if you go the distance, you may be expected to do the asking and planning for romantic occasions. Some guys will love being asked out for Valentine's Day, but others may feel slightly emasculated. Read your audience. You also have the choice of making this a capital-V Valentine's Day date or simply organizing a date that happens to fall on Feb. 14 but isn't characterized by red hearts and Godiva and staring into each other's eyes over candlelight. That's okay, too. Here are a few activities you can try if you're not ready to propose the honeymoon suite:

  • Do something active: A hike or bike ride is romantic without feeling cliché. You'll get to connect but in a way that's a far cry from Hallmark's portrayal of Valentine's Day.
  • Skip the restaurant and make dinner at home: A fancy fixed-pride Valentine's Day dinner out can feel a little forced and couple-y early-on, but planning a regular night in with a romantic upgrade is a great way to celebrate V-Day in the gray zone. Cooking a nice meal together while watching a movie is intimate but still low pressure.
  • Your go-to: What have you done for your last several dates? Grabbed beers? Played pool? Gone for a walk? Do that. While you may not want to make a statement that you have to spend Valentine's Day together, there's also no reason you can't have a date tonight just because it's Feb. 14. Texting "want to grab a drink tonight?" is always safe.
  • Opt for food or drinks as a low-key gift:Whether to buy your Valentine a present — and what kind — is a struggle even once you're out of the gray zone. You don't want to be the only one not to get a gift; you also don't want to be the only one not to receive one. You don't want to get something over-the-top; you also don't want to go for a plush bear if your partner's picking out jewelry. For couples (or something like them) in the gray zone, a small gag gift or something you pick up that's thoughtful but casual and inexpensive strikes the perfect tone — and often that comes in the form of food or drinks. Make him a batch of cookies you think he'd love or pick up a bottle of wine that you want to try together.

4. Make other plans.

Doing this prevents you from losing your mind, hinting around the subject, and feeling helpless as you wait for him to ask you out for The Big Day. Planning something fun with girlfriends is a great option. One year when I was single in my 20s, I organized a huge dinner with all my close single girlfriends and had a contest to see who'd had the worst date ever. It was a blast. The winner was treated to dinner and a bottle of wine. (Don't worry, I didn't drink the whole bottle all at once.)

Regardless of how things play out, you potentially have your whole future to share Valentine's Days together so don't make this a barometer of your future relationship together. Respect the gray zone, and to avoid sitting home alone feeling resentful, make sure you have something fun planned — whether with him or not.

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Happy Valentine’s Day 2022: We all know Valentine’s Day can be a loving holiday full of joy and genuine gratitude for the special someone in people’s lives. However, come February, there is an avalanche of Valentine’s Day-related decorations everywhere you go. Thus, for some people, both single and in relationships, Valentine’s Day ends up becoming an annoying and unnecessary celebration. Especially, for the singles and those going through a recent breakup.

But before you reach for that pint of ice cream to douse your annoyance or hatred for this festival, we’re here to tell you that it doesn’t have to be this way. You can still plan an amazing day for yourself on February 14. Just because Valentine’s Day is promoted as a day for couples doesn’t mean you cannot commemorate this festival of love by celebrating self-love instead. So, we decided to list eight cool ways you can do the same.

Have a Regular Day

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Just because everyone says so doesn’t mean that you have to do anything special on Valentine’s Day to get through it. You can treat this festival as any regular day by waking up and following your usual schedule. Sometimes the best way to enjoy a day is by spending quality time with yourself and connecting with your mind.

Host a Singles-Only Dinner Party

Host a singles-only dinner party at your home. (Unsplash)

Ditch the friends who are in a relationship and have plans on Valentine’s Day. Instead, host a singles-only dinner party. Spending time with your best friends is an incredible way of celebrating the day of love without involving romance. Cook dinner, dance the night away and don’t forget to toast to your singlehood. If you want, invite those friends who are in a relationship but don’t like the idea of Valentine’s Day – partners not allowed, obviously.

Cook Dinner for Your Parents

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If you live with your parents because of the Covid-19 pandemic, take some time out to celebrate Valentine’s Day by cooking a romantic dinner for them. After all, the best way to mark this day is by celebrating your parents’ love. Set the table, light candles, and open a good bottle of wine. If you are a single-parent child, whip up your parent’s favourite dish and enjoy some quality time with them.

Bake a Cake For Yourself

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If you love baking and having sweets is your weakness, make a delectable dessert and don’t share it with anyone. Choose a recipe that’s a little more advanced, and believe us, you will be proud of yourself once you are done and have that first bite.

Try A New Recipe

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Prepare a lavish spread for yourself on Valentine’s Day if you love cooking instead of baking. Pick an exotic dish you have always wanted to try, and get busy in the kitchen. You will be relishing the tasty result of your hard work at the end of the day.

Plan a Date With Your Best Friend

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Meet up with your best friend and spend some quality time with them. Plan the day beforehand and enjoy doing both of your favourite activities the entire time you are together. After all, best friend love is something to celebrate.

Stay off Social Media

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Yes, you read that right. Valentine’s Day is the best time to stay off social media and avoid all the happy couple photos clogging up your feed. If you are just out of a relationship, you should try this step and avoid checking up on your ex-partner. Additionally, with all the stress from your everyday life and balancing platonic relationships, you’re likely in need of rest anyway. This is the digital detox you need.

Do That Thing Your Ex Complained About

How to get a valentineDo the things that your ex complained about. (Pexels)

This hack is for people looking for ways to deal with a recent breakup. Valentine’s Day is the time to do all the things you had avoided because your ex got annoyed. Did your ex scoff at your love for rom-com or K-dramas? Refused to try your favourite cuisine? Bask in the freedom of being able to do all of this and more.

In the end, remember that being single isn’t the worst thing. It’s easy to feel bad about yourself if you are single on Valentine’s Day, but it is necessary to know that you don’t need another person to be happy. You are enough and can do so many fun things alone. So, how will you celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Buying flowers for your significant other on Valentine’s Day is a much more intricate process than most people realize. The type and color of flowers you choose can send a certain message to the receiver and indicate your true thoughts about the relationship. But have no fear – us women at the D & A Dunlevy office have compiled a list of different types of flowers and their meanings, along with some do’s and don’ts, for your convenience this Valentine’s Day.

Roses – Roses are a common go-to flower for Valentine’s Day. People do not always realize that they come in an assortment of colors and each color has a very different meaning.

Red – A bouquet of red roses represents love, romance, perfection, and beauty and says “I love you”. This romantic classic would certainly impress that special person in your life, but be careful not to overuse this special occasion arrangement.

Yellow – How to get a valentineThese gentle pastel flowers indicate friendship, be it long-lasting or newly-budding (pun intended). Be cautious about who you buy this arrangement for, since it is not usually associated with romance. These are a great option for a friend, mother, grandmother, or sister.

White – These beautiful flowers often get overlooked as strictly a wedding bouquet arrangement because they represent purity and innocence. However, they also represent truth, flawlessness, and send a simple “I miss you” message. These are a perfect choice for long-distance relationships or for bringing the novelty back to a mature relationship.

Pink – A feminine bunch of pink roses (any shade) indicate admiration, gratitude, grace, and gentleness. Like the yellow rose, these are a great option for a mother or grandmother, and also a daughter.

*Note that different rose colors can be combined to create a more intricate message.

Gerber Daises – This friendly flower comes in a variety of cheerful and fun colors, including different shades of pink, orange, red, yellow, and white. Representing lightheartedness, innocence, and purity, these are a great choice that are sure to make the receiver smile. Consider giving them to a daughter, sister, or anyone with a sunny disposition. How to get a valentine
White Lilies – These classy flowers symbolize style and sophistication. While expensive, a woman with elegant tastes would appreciate receiving this expressive and reflective gift. Lilies are also a wonderful flower to combine with others to add some glamour to a romantic bouquet. How to get a valentine
Orchids – This exotic potted flower is unique from a traditional bouquet and, though infrequently, will re-bloom and continue to last when cared for. Embodying love, beauty, and strength, they are a perfect gift to represent the timeless qualities of your romantic relationship, while also offering a compliment to the receiver’s taste. How to get a valentine
Carnations – This budget-friendly bouquet should not be overlooked. Available in a vast array of colors, both natural and dyed, they are appropriate for a wide range of recipients. Carnations represent fascination and new love, making them an appropriate gift for a new relationship or a congratulatory occasion. How to get a valentine
Irises – A unique choice for Valentine’s Day, irises reflect faith and hope and have a beautiful fragrance. This is an attentive option for anyone special in your life that shows how thoughtful you are. How to get a valentine
Gardenias – Sold in single blooms, this exquisite flower speaks of a deep and old fashioned love, and represents purity and joy. Reserve this one for a very special occasion, not because they are expensive, but because they are great for a tender moment that you will want her to remember for a lifetime! How to get a valentine

Suggestions & Tips:

  • Use flowers from your wedding or from a specific romantic occasion in the past to bring back the fond memories and illustrate how your love has grown over time.
  • If you’re trying to impress a new date, look for an assortment of flowers and colors that represent you and the relationship characteristics that you seek.
  • Avoid gladiolus – though pretty, they are typically used at funerals. Enough said.
  • Setting is everything, meaning how and when you give flowers is as important as the type of flowers you give. Sending them to her office gives her a chance to show you off to her co-workers. Surprising her with flowers at home tells her you were thinking of her all day. If you are meeting her on a date, something small like a single rose or gardenia is less awkward for her to carry around than a large bouquet may be.
  • Chocolates always compliment any bouquet, make sure to buy something thoughtful though, i.e. chocolate covered strawberries instead of that random box of chocolates at the grocery store.
  • Get what she likes! Regardless of meaning, women often have favorite flowers – knowing her flower of choice shows you listen and like learning about her.

No matter what, it’s the thought that counts. Good luck and have a Happy Valentine’s Day!

Carly Snyder, MD is a reproductive and perinatal psychiatrist who combines traditional psychiatry with integrative medicine-based treatments.

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Being alone on Valentine's Day may leave you feeling left out. It's easy to let the media and advertisements make you feel like something is missing if you are not in a relationship on this particular day.

There are many reasons why you may find yourself alone on Valentine’s day. Maybe you’ve chosen to be single or are not interested in a relationship. It’s also possible that you’re single for reasons outside of your control. For instance, maybe you’re dealing with social anxiety disorder (SAD) and experience some fear in pursuing a romantic relationship.

Whatever the reason, as Valentine's Day approaches, you might be feeling feel like you're the only person in the world without a partner.

The best way to manage feelings of loneliness on this day involves shifting your focus, aiming to be happy with what you already have, and spending some time with yourself.

Ignore Valentine's Day

There is no rule that you need to celebrate or even acknowledge Valentine's Day. However, don't let social media, store displays, or stories of others make you feel bad about your relationship status.

February 14th is just one day of the year. There is no reason why you can't treat it as though it's just another day.

Be Kind to Yourself

If you’d prefer not to ignore Valentine’s Day, you can decide to make it a day to treat yourself well. Try some of the following self-care strategies:

  • Eat your favorite foods
  • Create a list of goals or intentions that you’d like to set for the day
  • Engage in hobbies that you enjoy
  • Sleep in late
  • Take the day off work
  • Write in a gratitude journal

If You Deal With Social Anxiety Disorder

A study published in 2012 in the journal Anxiety, Stress, and Coping showed that people with SAD are less likely to show themselves self-compassion. This means that it's extra important for you to take the time to slow down and be aware of how you are treating yourself. Make time for yourself and show yourself some much-deserved love and kindness.

Be Your Own Secret Admirer

On Valentine's Day, you might start scrolling through social media and see all of the flowers and chocolates your coworkers, friends, and loved ones have received. But have you ever wondered if they might have sent them to themselves?

If you feel really down about being alone on Valentine's Day, go ahead and send yourself some flowers or your favorite candy to your place of work or your home. This gift will be special because you received it from someone who knows you best—you!

Avoid Love Triggers

Avoid watching romantic movies and listening to love songs because they may trigger even more feelings of loneliness on Valentine’s Day. If a relationship has recently ended or you deal with social anxiety disorder, these types of activities may elicit sadness and feelings of depression about being alone during this holiday. Try watching a new show or a different genre as Valentine’s Day approaches instead.

Make Other Plans

Plan a day revolving around a recreational activity or hobby unrelated to Valentine's Day. For example, you might:

  • Go for a hike
  • Schedule some time to take a long, relaxing bubble bath
  • Order a meal from your favorite restaurant
  • Play your favorite video game
  • Try a new workout

Having plans to do something concrete will help to take your mind off the fact that you are single. This will give you time to shift your attention to yourself and relish your alone time.

Plus, if you choose something memorable, then each year, you will have something to celebrate on that date that extends beyond Valentine's Day.

Plan a Date With Single Friends

If you have single friends, plan a date night with them! Being in the company of others in the same situation will help to ease your loneliness.

Be sure to keep the night upbeat. Activities that the group could do might include the following:

  • Play games
  • Watch a movie together
  • Cook a meal or prepare cocktails together

In addition to feeling less lonely, spending some quality time with friends will keep your social skills strong and provide you with feelings of love on this day.

Reach Out to Someone

Take the opportunity to reach out to someone whom you haven't spoken to in a while. That person might be a family member, a friend, or even a potential romantic interest

You never know who might also be feeling lonely on Valentine's Day. They may welcome the chance to catch up and connect.

Brighten Someone Else's Day

Do you know someone who has recently lost a significant other? A small gift on Valentine's Day would mean a lot and would make you feel good as well. Gift ideas might include:

  • Gift basket with tea, coffee, or other goodies
  • A promise of time spent together
  • Flowers
  • Homemade cookies or other treats

Keep Up Your Daily Routine

One of the best ways to deal with being alone on Valentine's Day is to go about your daily routine:

  • Clean the house
  • Go grocery shopping
  • Exercise
  • Walk your dog
  • Prepare meals
  • Get some work done

Do whatever you would normally do that day of the week; this will help to make it seem like just another day of the year.

Play Cupid

Most people have never received a gift from a secret admirer. Consider anonymously sending a gift to someone in the same position as you. This doesn't need to be someone you have a romantic interest in—simply someone you want to see smile.

Include a note saying that you wanted to 'pay it forward this Valentine's Day.' Gift ideas could include:

  • Books (with a special bookmark enclosed)
  • Calendars
  • Chocolates or candy
  • Flowers
  • Gift cards
  • Gourmet food baskets
  • Homemade gifts

A Word From Verywell

Valentine’s Day can be a wonderful time if you are in a relationship but difficult if you find yourself alone. If you’re struggling with severe feelings of loneliness, it might be a good idea to reach out to a therapist. They can help you develop some healthy coping mechanisms.

If you are spending this holiday alone, try to remind yourself of how wonderful you are and show yourself some compassion and love on Valentine's Day.

February means walking into any establishment and being bombarded with red hearts, pink flowers, and phrases like “be mine” written in elegant script everywhere you look. For some people, both single and in relationships, Valentine’s Day is an annoying and unnecessary commercial celebration. For those who are single and not exactly happy about it, though, it can be more like pouring salt in a wound.

We’re here to tell you that it doesn’t have to be that way! While a couple’s massage may not be on the docket, you can still plan on having a ball on February 14. In fact, Valentine’s Day can be a great opportunity to indulge in fun activities, whether it’s dinner solo or some self-care. Just because you don’t have a significant other to cuddle up next to doesn’t mean you can’t commemorate a holiday that honors love by celebrating self-love instead.

Not sure what to do? Here are 23 awesome things to do when you're single on Valentine's Day—no S.O. required.

Go to a Movie

Going to the movies alone is arguably better than going with someone else. Get a ticket to a new film you've been dying to see, splurge on some overpriced popcorn and candy, and have a date with yourself.

Host a Singles-Only Dinner Party

Spending time with friends is a great celebration of love that doesn’t involve romance. Invite all your favorite single people over, cook an amazing dinner, pop some bubbly, and toast to your independence.

Get a Beauty Treatment

Looking good and feeling good go hand in hand. Spoil yourself to a haircut, blowout, mani-pedi, or massage.

Get Out of Town

Plan a Valentine's Day weekend getaway with a friend or family member, or go solo. Drive or take the train somewhere you've always wanted to go or visit an old favorite destination where you can bask in nostalgia.

Cook a Romantic Dinner for Your Parents

What better way to celebrate love than to spend some quality time with your parents? Have them forgo a traditional dinner out and cook for them instead. Set the table, light candles, and open a good bottle of wine.

Eat at Your Favorite Restaurant

Solo dinners out are so underrated. You can order whatever you want, you don't have to make conversation with anyone, and you can really focus on the delicious food you're eating. Book a table for one at your favorite restaurant (or sit at the bar), and don't forget to splurge on dessert.

Sign Up for a Boutique Workout

Ever wanted to attend a class at Barry's Bootcamp or SoulCycle? Check out a cool studio near you! After reaping the emotional benefits of exercise, indulge in a smoothie.

Bake a Chocolate Layer Cake

Make a delectable dessert and don't share it with anyone. Choose one that's a little more advanced, and be proud of yourself when you nail it.

Try a New Dinner Recipe

Do you have a bunch of recipes saved to your bookmarks or favorites that you've been meaning to try out? Valentine's Day is the perfect opportunity to grab the ingredients and cook a delicious dinner for one.

Stay In and Pamper Yourself

Make it a day full of self-care activities that make you feel rejuvenated and refreshed. Take a long bath, do a face mask, or paint your nails.

Book a Couple's Massage

Who said you need an S.O. to do a couple's massage or facial? Bring your best friend or a family member and experience ultimate relaxation.

Have a "Sex and the City" Marathon

There's nothing like the wisdom of Carrie Bradshaw to make you feel less depressed about dating. Order pizza from your favorite place, shake up a Cosmopolitan, and binge-watch the show that celebrates single women everywhere.

Go to Your Favorite Bar

Odds are, that local dive bar you go to for happy hour after work will be chock-full of single people who just want to have a good time. Order your go-to cocktail and strike up a conversation with the bartender or another patron. Or, bring a book and keep to yourself.

Plan a Date With Your Best Friend

Best friend love is something to celebrate! Get dressed up, go to a fancy restaurant, and order off the special Valentine’s Day menu with wine pairings.

Do Something Nice for Someone

Choose someone who is older than you, like a grandparent or mentor. Send them a bouquet of roses and tell them how much you look up to them.

Explore a New Neighborhood

Head to an area of town you aren't too familiar with. Walk up and down the streets, enjoy a cappuccino at the hip cafe, and browse the racks of a stylish boutique.

Watch Your Favorite Sporting Event

If the big game is on, head to a sports bar to watch. Get a group of friends together and cheer on your favorite team while sipping beers and eating greasy pub grub.

Stay off Social Media

Make V-day a phone-free day. Stalking your ex on social media to see how they’re celebrating with their new S.O. is not going to make you feel happy or confident nor are all the happy couple photos clogging up your feed. Buy a new book to read instead, or spend some time in nature.

Hang With Your Nieces or Nephews

Offer to take care of your nieces and nephews (or your friends' kids) so their parents can go out. Be the cool aunt or uncle: Order pizza, watch Frozen, and make brownie sundaes.

Buy Yourself Flowers

Buy yourself a beautiful arrangement of flowers, or bring home an assortment and channel your inner florist to make beautiful bouquets. Use them to decorate your house and bask in the sweet smell.

Go to a Comedy Show

Stand-up comedy shows are often full of self-effacing humor, and laughing is one of the best ways to boost your mood. If you don't feel like going out, stream one of the latest comedy specials on Netflix.

Splurge on a Nice Piece of Jewelry

Have you had your eye on some new accessories, like an expensive pair of earrings, ring, or bracelet, but haven't been able to justify purchasing them? Here's your opportunity. You're worth it!

Love Yourself

Do whatever makes you happy! Cut yourself some slack. Remind yourself that you are lovable and worthy of love.

What is Valentine’s Day? Here we are going to discuss some most romantic ways to celebrate this beautiful day.

How to get a valentine

Valentine’s Day offers lovers many ways to express their emotions. Perhaps one of these will inspire you. Many people around the world celebrate Valentine’s Day by showing appreciation for the people they love or adore. Some people take their loved ones for a romantic dinner at a restaurant while others may choose this day to propose or get married. Many people give Valentines greeting cards, chocolates, jewelry or flowers, particularly roses, to their partners or admirers on Valentine’s Day. It is also a time to appreciate friends in some social circles and cultures.

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. Whether you are spending the day with a special someone or getting together with friends, here are some most romantic thing and ways that you can do on a day that’s set aside for love.

10. Enjoy Valentine’s Day Alone

How to get a valentine

Celebrate being hot and single, and enjoy some time to mingle. Who says that people need a companion for this one day of the year? Treat yourself to a spa or a long bubble bath. Take a long drive and enjoy the scenery. If it’s too snowy or iced down, stay in and watch sports games or that romantic movie on cable. Some people get lucky on this day.

9. Express With a Rose

How to get a valentine

No gift says “I love you” on Valentine’s Day like a bouquet of roses. Express your words with a rose. While lavender (or purple) are seen more on first dates and secret “love at first sight” times, white roses are a tradition for weddings. Pink, orange, and yellow roses are viewed as admiration, excitement, and friendship respectively. The yellow and pink are very similar and can be used for the same events. Finally, the red rose, as the color expresses and emphasizes beauty and love. Red roses are traditionally exchanged by couples and people who wish to express their feelings towards another.

8. A day for Friends, not Lovers

How to get a valentine

Valentine’s Day is traditionally a way to celebrate the romance in your life, but it’s also a good way to show friends how much you value them. There are as many ways to do this as there are friendships, and no way is right or wrong. With some friends, you might give a card to say “Happy Valentine’s Day,” while with others you might go all out with a big party.

7. Remind Your First Date

How to get a valentine

There’s a good chance that the beginning of your relationship was the time when you made the most effort to show her your romantic side, so why not turn back the clock and remind her how charming you were when you were wooing her?

Women love it when men remember details from when they were still getting to know each other. Think back to your first date, and take her to the same place, eat the same food and do the same things that first sparked your romance.

6. Make a Romantic Date!

How to get a valentine

Okay, so you may not be able to pull off anything like Justin Bieber’s romantic “Titanic” date but surely you can swing with your love. Sometimes the best Valentine’s Day gift you can give is the gift of uninterrupted time together. You don’t need to leave the house to make Valentine’s Day special. Think of how great it could be to spend the entire day in a bedroom together. Turn off your phones, don’t answer the door and enjoy each other.

5. Sweets for Your Sweet

How to get a valentine

Chocolate is to Valentine’s Day what Bruce Willis is to Die Hard — the star of the show. It’s a fact that chocolate has a batting average of about 1.000 when it comes as a present, so why not turn the entire day into one, long sweet gift? If you are getting something for a school classmate, get a small box of those sugary hearts with the little sayings on them. If you wish, you can make a chocolate recipe along with someone else on Valentine’s Day.

4. Dress up in Your Finest

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This is a very special day so pull out all the stops and dress up in your finest. No matter what your plans are, whether you’ve got reservations at a posh restaurant or you’re eating a meal together at home — dressing up and good grooming will make the occasion feel extra special. Most women love having the chance to get all dolled up, and you can both enjoy looking your best while spending time together.

3. Make a Homemade Card for Someone

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2. Spend Quality Time With Loved One

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Make time for what’s important and spend quality time with your loved ones. The easiest way to spend quality time with loved ones is to involve them in your day. Go out to a nice restaurant or create a special dinner. Cuddle with your significant other on a couch and watch a movie. Try to avoid distractions, such as surfing the internet, chatting on the phone while around people, or deciding to do other things by yourself or with another group of people.

1. Propose Your Dream Girl

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The best way to propose to the woman of your dreams is on Valentines Day. If you’ve been thinking about asking her to marry you, there’s no time like Valentine’s Day for a romantic proposal. The day is meant for lovers, after all, and getting down on one knee with a ring or red rose is one of the best ways you can profess your love for her.

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Healing from a breakup is never easy, but Valentine’s Day can make moving on a seemingly impossible feat, thanks to constant lovey-dovey messaging and shopping promotions.

Plenty of new singles will be celebrating Valentine’s Day without a partner. According to an October 2021 report from Pew Research Center, four out of every ten Americans between the ages of 25 and 54 are single.

According to therapist Charmain Jackman, a little planning can help the newly single transform Valentine’s Day into a meaningful and happy holiday.

Consider a social media detox

On Valentine’s Day, couples flock to social media to publicly profess their love and how they’re spending the day. These images, while sweet, can sadden someone fresh out of a breakup.

Instead of enduring non-stop social media chatter that could remind you of your ex, Jackman suggested deleting your apps and blocking Instagram and Facebook from your computer.

A social-media detox is also an opportunity to further heal from your relationship, Amy Chan, a relationship advice columnist for more than a decade and author of “Breakup Bootcamp: The Science of Rewiring Your Heart,” previously told Insider.

“And it’s not because they’re a bad person. Detoxing from your ex doesn’t mean that you hate the person or it ended on bad terms. It also doesn’t mean you can’t be friends again in the future, but you do need a period of time for your mind, body, heart, and soul, to transition from a relationship that’s intimate or romantic to something else,” she said.

Map out your perfect self-care day ahead of time

Instead of waiting until February 14 to decide how to cope, Jackman suggested creating a plan ahead of time for how you want to spend the day.

“It can be very hard and lots of things will trigger the person’s memories. So I think the more that you can schedule out your day, that helps you keep busy or engaged in activities that are focused on you, or connected with friends or family members,” Jackman told Insider.

If you’re stumped on how to keep your day engaging and fun-filled, consider a rom-com binge with friends on a group- streaming service, a silly PowerPoint night with roommates, or virtual game night with your family.

Pour into hobbies you’ve been neglecting, or find a new one

You can also use the day to love yourself more.

“We can lose parts of ourselves when we get connected with other people,” Jackman said. Thinking about the hobbies you abandoned during your relationship, and fostering them again, could help you reconnect with yourself.

Take time to reflect on what you learned in your relationship

If you’ve had some distance from your breakup, reflecting on the highs and lows of the relationship could help you prepare for future love.

“Sometimes people avoid doing that because they don’t want to go there and [deal with] those emotions, but it can be a really helpful exercise to do some of that internal work,” Jackman said.

If you’re not used to this type of exercise, Jackman suggested her favorite reflection method, journaling.

You can use paper and pen, or speak into your voice notes for a virtual version, she said. Ask yourself the following questions to get started:

Pokémon Go’s annual Valentine’s Day event is happening, bringing doubled candy from catching Pokémon and other sweet bonuses to the game from Feb. 10-14, 2022. Our Pokémon Go Valentine’s Day 2022 event guide lists out the Collection Challenges, Field Research, spawns, and other bonuses.

This event also celebrates the addition of Flabébé, the flower Pokémon, to Pokémon Go. Flabébé comes in five different colors and three of the colors are region-locked to specific areas around the world.

Heart Trim Furfrou is also available during the event period, so if you’re a collector of various rare Pokémon forms, make sure to grab one before the event ends.

Gardevoir and Gallade both can get the exclusive move Synchronoise when caught from raids or evolved during the event period, as well.

There is also a global challenge for players to send a combined 70 million gifts before the event ends to get tripled transfer Candy.

Pokémon Go Valentine’s Day 2022 event Field Research and rewards

Task Reward
Task Reward
Catch 5 Pokémon Luvdisc encounter
Catch 20 Luvdisc Alomomola encounter
Earn 3 hearts with your buddy Pikachu or Eevee encounter
Use 5 berries to help catch Pokémon Ralts encounter
Win a raid Frillish encounter
Make 5 great curveball throws in a row Spinda encounter

Pokémon Go Valentine’s Day 2022 event Collection Challenge

Catching all of the Pokémon in each challenge will yield specific rewards.

Collection Challenge 1

  • Luvdisc
  • Woobat
  • Plusle
  • Volbeat

Reward: male Frillish encounter, 2,000 XP, 2,000 Stardust

Collection Challenge 2

  • Luvdisc
  • Furfrou
  • Minun
  • Illumise

Reward: female Frillish encounter, 2,000 XP, 2,000 Stardust